My parents moved to Nijmegen where my father
started his Master's in Social Science (pedagogiek). They bought their first
house there in the Rembrandstraat and since my parents were on a tight
student's budget, they rented out two rooms to other students. I remember one
time that I was in the room of one of the students, but that's it. I do
remember quite a bit of this time in Nijmegen, some of my friends, garden,
roads, people. My younger sister, Brenda, was born in that period, and I do
remember once that we fed her on my parents bed, so I must have been around
four years old.</p><p>I remember a friend of mine, Jeroen, who
got to eat steak every lunch and pretended that the toilet was an elevator.
The big chestnut tree in the garden of a girlfriend's woth the chestnuts
inside the large prickly fruit. The grapevine in the garden of the local GP,
the father of another girlfriend. Me sitting at his desk, putting my finger
on his table after I hurt it between the garden gate. With my skelter down
the hill, on up the hill at the other side of the block. Collecting waste
paper for no apparent reason with a friend. Waking up one night, not finding
my parents and walking over to the neighbours where they were (I must have
remembered somehow). And funnily also a memory when I was walking to the
supermarket and saw a wrapped piece of candy on the street. My mother
wouldn't let me pick it up and eat it, although it was still
wrapped.</p><p>Other memories. Going with my father to a nearby
building that they were going to tear down to get some of the old tiles that
were still in there. I was a little bit scared that the bulldozers would move
in, although it wass probably a Sunday anyway. Also the river, where you had
stairs that would go directly into the water. Some memories from school. In
the end, many anecdotical memories of an apparent carefree
childhood. |